Tuesday, July 21, 2009
crazy world
This world is just insane. People's reactions to it are almost as crazy. People take bad news and change differently. Some people flip out over any little problem. Others take everything in stride. I am the latter, 90% of the time. But when I struggled with how I should feel and move forward recently, some of you were very helpful. Others were dealing with their own problems that made me absolutely feel horrible for feeling bad about my situation. It's said all the time, but it's really true that someone always has it worse than you. Whether it be the end of a relationship, a divorce, betrayal, or the loss of a loved one, or just realizing that as individuals you are moving in different directions, there will always be someone in a worse situation. It never seems to happen to those that deserve it. But what we all need to remember, is that no matter what has been done to you, what you have lost, or what may have changed, that eventually we all have to push forward. Ultimately, you have to believe that the future will be better than the past. And you have to figure out how to make that happen. I've always been the one to handle things myself, to step up and deal with it, to NOT ask for help. Now, I want to be the one to make someone's life the best it can be. Better than it was. Better than they ever knew it could be. But I want someone who is as concerned and dedicated to doing the same for me. I'm going to demand that from my relationships in the future, both form myself and my partner. As much as I hope I find that, I hope all of you find what you need to make your life the best it can be as well. And as always, if there is anything I can do for any of you, just let me know.
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